
As the years add up, it’s natural to reflect on the legacy we leave behind. It seems, however, that a significant portion of the 55-and-older community might be overlooking an important aspect of this legacy: end-of-life planning. According to a revealing survey by Merrill Lynch and Age Wave, only 18% of individuals aged 55 and older have a comprehensive estate plan, including a will, a living will, and a durable power of attorney.
Despite this, there’s a silver lining: 90% of respondents are open to discussing their end-of-life preferences with loved ones. Kevin Hindman, a national trust executive at Merrill Lynch, points out that people recognize the importance of organizing their affairs but often don’t act on it.

Estate planning might sound exclusive to the affluent, but it’s really about ensuring that your assets, whether they’re bank accounts, real estate, or personal belongings, are distributed according to your wishes after your passing. It’s also about preventing potential family conflicts and making a challenging time a little easier for your loved ones.
There are several key components to consider in estate planning:
- 1. Wills Are a Must: Regardless of the size of your estate, a will is crucial. Dying without one means the state decides who gets your assets, and if you have minor children, a judge could determine their guardian.
- 2. Choosing the Right Executor: This role involves significant responsibilities, like managing assets and fulfilling your wishes as outlined in your will. Make sure the person you choose is up for the task.
- 3. Living Wills and Health-Care Directives: These documents are about your life and well-being, detailing your wishes in case you’re incapacitated and unable to communicate.
- 4. Durable Power of Attorney: This allows someone you trust to manage your finances if you’re unable to do so, covering everything from paying bills to handling investments.
- 5. Beneficiary Designations: Contrary to popular belief, your will doesn’t control who inherits your retirement accounts or life insurance proceeds. These are determined by the designated beneficiaries on each account, so keep these updated.
- 6. Organizing Critical Documents: Make it easier for your loved ones by keeping an organized list of important documents and information, including online passwords.
- 7. Regular Updates: Life is full of changes, and your estate plan should reflect that. Review and update your will and other documents periodically, especially after major life events.

Planning for the end of life might not be the most enjoyable task, but it’s a profound act of love and responsibility. It ensures that your wishes are honored, your assets are protected, and your loved ones are cared for. It’s never too late to take this important step towards peace of mind in your golden years.